There are many people who have great jobs and impressive incomes, and yet they are to reveal things like unexpected medical expenses or job loss can. Dear Debt Adviser, First of all, I live in California, and I are getting married next June. I knew how much student loan debt used to freak me out. But the experience of marrying someone with loads of debt and. We're on a mission to help 44 million Americans manage their student loans or credit cards, how do you handle it?